Saturday, December 2, 2023

December 2023 newsletter

House to House 
Family of Hope House Church                             December 2023


Christmas As A Birthday Extravaganza For Jesus         Harvey Yoder                                                               

Many of us put a phenomenal amount of thought and effort into selecting just the right gifts for our loved ones, and spend an extraordinary amount of cash every year doing so. Our economy is highly dependent on this kind of year end Christmas sales for its survival.

    There’s one side of me that sees this as a kind of positive thing. What isn’t there to like about spreading some holiday cheer and focusing on how to make our loved ones happy, plus maybe singing some carols and being generous with Salvation Army bell ringers. It was Bart Simpson, if I recall, who once exclaimed, “We Christians get to celebrate Jesus’s birthday by getting lots of really cool stuff. Is this a great religion or what?”

    But there’s another side of me that asks how all of the spending we do on each other, all the shopping and gift wrapping and feasting that goes with the season, really has much to do with honoring the one whose birth we are supposed to be celebrating?

    William Wood, a retired professor of economics at James Madison University and a member of the Beaver Creek Church of the Brethren, wrote a piece some time ago that was published in the Wall Street Journal, lamenting the fact that our national celebration of Christmas has become so pagan and so unChristian that we ought to just call it what it has become, a "Merry Excessmas", and call the Christian celebration of Jesus’ birth something else, like "Holy Nativity" (or "Feliz Navidad").

    There’s an organization called Simple Living Works that promotes a joyful, freeing kind of more with less lifes, which for many years produced an annual collection of alternative ways of doing Christmas under the heading “Whose Birthday is it Anyway?” suggesting that in the spirit of the real Saint Nicolas of Myra, that we make this a time of extravagant giving for the needs of our hungry, homeless and the displaced neighbors around the world.

    But maybe we can learn something from the way we have traditionally gone about observing the season and apply that to the way we share God’s lavish gifts with those in the greatest need. In imitating God’s generosity toward God’s own loved ones, can we make our life all about lavishing gifts on Jesus through generous giving to the least of these, thus celebrating Christmas year round.


Notes, Prayers and Praises

THE WALKING ROOTS BAND will be presenting a benefit concert at 6:30 pm Sunday, December 10, at the EMHS theater to benefit Mennonite Central Committee and the Virginia Mennonite Relief Sale. A freewill offering will be taken.

DECEMBER BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS to Karen Campbell 12/26/69! 

DECEMBER BIBLE STUDY LEADERS may select passages of their own choosing, preferably on an Advent theme.

PRAY FOR MARGIE VLASITS and for success in the treatments she's receiving at UVA.


December Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 

3  We will again meet in person with Jim and Ruth Stauffer in the Redbud unit on the second floor of Crestwood for a time of singing, sharing, praying and communion together, led by Harvey Yoder.

10 Location: online

Worship and sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger

Bible Study: Dick Dumas

17 Location: 

Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera Wenger

Bible Study: Kent Palmer

24 We encourage everyone to visit another church of their choice, in person, this Sunday.

31 Location: online

Worship and Sharing: Harvey Yoder

Study: Elly Nelson

Thursday, November 2, 2023

House to House 
Family of Hope House Church            November 2023

My Sister Maggie Schrock 1936-2023—Graveside Reflections 10/28/23

Today we lay to rest our precious Maggie here beside her husband of so many years in a space shaded by trees, a place inviting to some of Maggie’s favorite things—birds and wildflowers, bees and butterflies and all things beautiful. She loved nature, loved people, loved her family and friends and neighbors far and wide, and above all she loved God. I’ve been so blessed by growing up in the circle of her loving kindness and sweet spirit, blessed by having a next older sister who looked after me, loved me, worked and played with me, had many conversations with me, sang hymns with me and with others as we got older, encouraged me, and sent us wonderful letters and cards laced with her faith and hope and love.
     For our wedding she gave us a priceless gift of an oil painting of a nature scene she did as a special gift for Alma Jean and I nearly 70 years ago now. We’ll miss her talents and her many gifts freely shared with family and friends  and neighbors and with the students she taught and loved at the Oak Hill School.
    Since we grew up just 3 years apart we shared many first things together, our first big train trip to Virginia when our family moved to the Valley from Kansas, our first school bus ride to the Stuarts Draft Elementary school, so big compared to the one room school we attended together in Kansas. Childhood and youth were full of first things, and now we are experiencing last things, last children leaving home, last paying jobs, last years of robust health and energy. Maggie has been just ahead of me in experiencing good hearing, 20-20 eyesight and good heart health for the last time. We are here today for this last farewell because she has drawn her last breath. The days and years between first things and last things have gone by “swifter than a weaver’s shuttle,” as Job laments. 
    As we and her beloved children became more and more aware of Maggie’s failing health and a great heart that finally just gave out, we were becoming prepared  to see her go, yet not prepared to see her gone, even though we know she is with God. She has gone ahead of us but she will always be with us, will live on in us through all the ways she has blessed, enriched and influenced our lives for good. May God be forever praised.              - Harvey Yoder

Notes, Prayers and Praises
WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR MARGIE VLASITS improvement after being hospitalized for a serious form of spinal meningitis.
NOVEMBER BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS to Neal Nelson 11/2 (in absentia), Paul Swarr 11/10 and Guy Vlasits 11/21. Neal and Elly Nelson’s anniversary is November 26.
FOR OUR NOVEMBER BIBLE STUDIES leaders may again choose a passage from the book of Acts or one of their own choosing.

November Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 
5  Location: We will meet in person with Jim and Ruth Stauffer in the Redbud unit on the second floor of Crestwood for a time of singing, sharing, and praying together.
12 Location: online
Worship and sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
19 Location: 
Worship and Sharing: Kent Palmer
Bible Study: Ellie Nelson
26 Location: online
Worship and Sharing, Lois Rivera Wenger
Study: Harvey Yoder 

Saturday, September 23, 2023

October 2023 newsletter

House to House 

Family of Hope House Church            October 2023


God’s First, Foremost And Final Focus

"The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing."   - Steven Covey

     After a lifetime of reflecting on the narrative of scripture, I've concluded that its main theme is that of God's love for enemies. In other words, God's ultimate purpose, hinted at in the Bible's beginning but becoming abundantly clear in its conclusion, is that of restoring what is broken in creation and reconciling all that has become divided and alienated.

     God's story begins with the shalom we call Eden, centers on the cross-based, enemy-loving life and resurrection of Jesus, and ends with a new heavens and a restored earth. In Christ, God comes to bring an end to all of the enmity that exists between us and our Creator and between us and our fellow creatures. All alienation is over.

    I used to wonder about the meaning of the phrase in Psalm 23, "You prepare a table for me in the presence of my enemies." Why not in the presence of my friends? Does God simply invite our enemies so they can look on with envy as we good people enjoy a table spread with abundance?

     No, God is inviting us to a Eucharist in which former enemies are being transformed into friends of God and friends with one another.

     Here's one of my favorite examples of this main theme, found in Paul's letter to the Ephesians (3:14-18), in which he addresses the foremost enmity of his time:  

For Christ is our living peace. He has made a unity of the conflicting elements of Jew and Gentile by breaking down the barrier which lay between us. By his sacrifice he removed the hostility of the Law, with all its commandments and rules, and made in himself out of the two, Jew and Gentile, one new humanity, thus producing peace. For he reconciled both to God by the sacrifice of one body on the cross, and by this act made utterly irrelevant the antagonism between them. Then he came and told both you who were far from God and us who were near that the war was over. And it is through him that both of us now can approach the Father in the one Spirit.  

 - J.B. Phillips translation

     This is God's dream. Let's make it ours, praying that every congregation of believers becomes a living demonstration of divided, broken and alienated human beings becoming one, truly a foretaste of the shalom to come.


Notes, Prayers and Praises

ANYONE UNABLE TO ATTEND THE VIRGINIA MENNONITE RELIEF SALE can make a contribution on the Sale website or write a check made out to Virginia Relief Sale (with SOS on the memo line).

OCTOBER BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS to Joyce Ulrich 10/14 and Elly Nelson 10/28!

FOR OUR OCTOBER BIBLE STUDIES leaders may choose a passage from the latter part of the book of Acts or one of their own choosing.


October Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 

1  Location: We'll meet in person in James Stauffer’s room at Oak Lea for an informal time of singing, sharing, praying together rather than our having our usual FOH service.

8 Location: online

Worship and sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger

Bible Study: Dick Dumas

15 Location: 

Worship and Sharing: Harvey Yoder

Bible Study:Kent Palmer

22 Location: online

Worship and Sharing, Ellie Nelson

Study: Harvey Yoder 

29 Location: online 

Worship and Sharing, Lois Rivera-Wenger

Bible Study: Ellie Nelson

Tuesday, August 29, 2023

September 2023 newsletter

House to House 
Family of Hope House Church            September 2023
A Spirit-Driven Church Becomes Amazingly Diverse
The God-movement unleashed on the day of Pentecost was revolutionary in the way it brought diverse and disparate people together. Quoting from the prophet Joel, the apostle Peter noted that young and old,  men and women, slave and free were are to be formed together into one living, loving community. 
     But that was just a start, the coming together of Jews of different languages and cultures from all over the then known world--Parthians, Medes, Elamites, citizens of Mesopotamia, Judaea, Cappadocia, Pontus, Asia, Phrygia, Pamphylia, Egypt, Libya and Rome, both Jews and proselytes, Cretes and Arabians. From there the circle of inclusiveness continues to expand at a breathtaking rate.
     Philip, one of the Greek speaking Jews appointed to oversee the daily distribution of food among needy followers of the Way in Jerusalem, goes on a preaching mission to despised half-breed Samaritans, baptizing scores of them into the new movement. Immediately afterwards, he is led to speak to a eunuch who is a Jewish court official on the road to his home in Ethiopia from Jerusalem, where he would have been excluded from access to temple worship due to his status as an emasculated male. The eunuch is baptized and "goes on his way rejoicing." 
     It is soon thereafter that the most dramatic kind of inclusion imaginable takes place. The apostle Peter is called to visit and to baptize the household of Cornelius, an uncircumcised Roman occupier who is a "God-fearing and upright" Gentile. This represented the crossing of the most fundamental of all barriers, an act which would have been anathema to a devout Jew like Peter. But according to the text, God's Spirit gave him no choice but to fully embrace a hated and uncircumcised oppressor whom God had declared "clean." 
     Meanwhile, new believers who were scattered all over the empire after the wave of persecution that took place after the stoning of Stephen, carried the inclusionary message of the Way to places like Antioch of Syria, which became a northern hub of the Christian movement, one that openly incorporated both Jews and Gentiles into the church.
     Soon thereafter, Paul, once a terrorist prosecutor of followers of the Way, with his companion Barnabas, went on a 500 mile preaching tour in which they baptize Jews and Gentiles alike into the movement. This creates major problems on the part of believers in the mother church in Jerusalem, and results in a summit of church leaders being called to resolve the rift created by the inclusion of uncircumcised Gentiles. 
     It is hard to overestimate the gravity of this question among early believers. It could not have been more abundantly clear, in the only Bible Jesus and the early apostles knew, that God had initiated this special rite of inclusion as mandatory, first to Abraham, at age 90, and then 400 years later, to the lawgiver Moses. There were to be no exceptions. 
    So for people whose faith was deeply rooted in Judaism, any thought of being a part of God's covenant people without that kind of sacred initiation was nearly unthinkable. Clearly the first century church could have easily divided over this issue, but instead felt led to draw the circle of welcome wider rather than to exclude those being drawn into it. That appears to be the trajectory in which God is forever moving.

Notes, Prayers and Praises
THE VIRGINIA MENNONITE RELIEF SALE is set for October 6-7
SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS Lewis Overholt (9/5) and David Weaver (9/23)!
THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS for those overcoming Covid!

September Study Theme: “Paul, a master communicator”
3   Paul addressing members of Jewish synagogues Acts 13-14:7
10 Paul shares good news with pagan and mixed audiences Acts14:8-28, 16:11-34
17 Paul adapts his message in addressing Athenian philosophers Acts 17:6-34
24 Paul addresses Governors Felix and Festus and King Agrippa Acts 24:1-26:32

September Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 

3  Location: online 
Worship and sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
10 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Harvey Yoder
Bible Study:Kent Palmer
17 Location: online
Worship and Sharing, Ellie Nelson
Study: Harvey Yoder 
24 Location: online 
Worship and Sharing, Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Ellie Nelson

Wednesday, August 2, 2023

August 2023 newsletter

House-to-House
Family of Hope House Church                             August 2023

Three and a Half Decades Of A Lived Dream

This month marks 35 years since Alma Jean and I transitioned from a 20 year period during which I was pastor of the Zion Mennonite Church south of Broadway to the beginning of what became Family of Hope House Church. The Zion congregation had been experiencing significant growth and was in need of either planting another church or expanding its meeting space. 
     At this point, some of us, with the blessing of the congregation, began having some prayer and discernment meetings with a few like minded persons who were, like us, more interested in the former than spending nearly a half million on the latter, noting that most of Zion's members commuted there for Sunday services from outside our rural community.
     Over time, after becoming involved in ministry to homeless and transient people in the run down former Star Gables Motel, we evolved into Virginia Mennonite Conference's first and only house church. Some Eastern Mennonite Seminary couples, including Ron and Laurie Czecholinski and Guy and Margie Vlasits helped the congregation grow into two separate but affiliated living room size  groups who formed one unified congregation. 
     When a significant number from the second group affiliated with the Twelve Tribes movement in the 90's we became just one group again, and have remained so in the years since. 
     Our aim has been to provide an alternative kind of New Testament-based church family for those who are less comfortable with traditional forms of church life that require paid staff and the maintenance of real estate used primarily for only a fews hours a week. A house church model utilizing the gifts of its own members was seen as one where participants' spiritual and other needs could receive attention at every gathering, and where all would be focused on being God's people in training to minister to people wherever we live and work, and not simply a group primarily inviting others to well planned inspirational services.
     Judging by our numbers, we haven't been very successful in attracting new people or in recruiting and training new leaders devoted to keeping the dream of that kind of missional church alive. Thus we are at a place where we are are asking whether God will create new wine and raise up new models of church life where existing churches are in decline.

Notes, Prayers and Praises
IN OUR AUGUST 6 SERVICE we will be hearing what the Spirit is saying about our future, and about whatever we may have experienced in our church visits July 23 and 30.
AUGUST BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS  to Kent Palmer, 8/10. Also, Alma Jean and Harvey Yoder’s anniversary is August 8, and James and Ruth Stauffer’s is August 30. Blessings to all!
AUGUST STUDY THEMES (below) are only suggested texts, not a part of the lectionary, and whether or where we meet is up to the group. If we choose to use these texts, each participant should come prepared to respond to the question for that Sunday and reflect on how the passage might apply to us today.

Proposed August Study Questions 

6   "What kind of house does God need?" Stephen affirms a revolutionary, tent-dwelling God in Acts 6:8-53
13 "Who is welcome in God's household?" Philip baptizes former outcasts and outsiders in Acts 8:4-40, 10:1-48
20 "What kind of church leaders does God choose?" A former persecutor becomes the church's lead evangelist in Acts 9:1-31
27 "What should God's people require of new members?" A summit at Jerusalem comes to a dramatic, Spirit-driven consensus in Acts 15:1-35

Proposed August Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 
6  Location: online 
Worship and sharing: Elly Nelson
Bible Study: c/o Harvey Yoder
13 Location: TBD 
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera Wenger
 Bible Study: c/o Dick Dumas
20 Location: TBD
Worship and Sharing: Kent Palmer
Bible Study: c/o Elly Nelson
27 Location: TBD 
Worship and Sharing: everyone brings a hymn, a scripture, a word of testimony
Bible Study: Harvey Yoder

Sunday, July 2, 2023

July 2023 newsletter

House-to-House
Family of Hope House Church                            July 2023

From Richard Stearns' The Hole In Our Gospel

"For the past two thousand years, "loving our neighbors as ourselves" has meant exactly that--loving our immediate neighbors, those people we encounter daily in our communities... That one's neighbors might include those living on another continent was ludicrous until recent times. In fact the great disparity between rich nations and poor nations... largely didn't even exist... Prior to 1800, disease and inadequate health care were facts of life that affected all people. Lack of clean water and sanitation would have been virtually universal. Droughts, crop failures, famines and epidemics would have periodically devastated almost all countries. Illiteracy was common everywhere. It was the legacy of colonialism combined with the advances of the Industrial Revolution that ultimately resulted in the rapid development of some economies over another." (p. 100)

"Only about 4% of all U.S. charitable giving goes to international causes of any kind." (p. 102)

"If your income is $25,000 a year, you are wealthier than approximately 90 percent of the world's population. If you make $50,000 a year, you are wealthier than 99% of the world's people." (p. 215)

Notes, Prayers and Praises
BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS TO Lois Rivera-Wenger July 30!
OUR NEXT IN-PERSON SERVICE is planned for July 23.
VIRGINIA CONFERENCE ASSEMBLY meets at the Park View Mennonite Church July 14-15. Everyone is welcome to a public Assembly worship service at 7 pm Friday July 14.
LEWIS AND MARY ELLEN OVERHOLT will be leaving July 18 for an extended time with family in Germany.
WE ARE ENCOURAGING EVERYONE to visit other churches July 23 and 30, then report back in an August 6 Zoom service.

July Study Themes (or study leaders may choose their own passage)
2   2 Peter 1:1-11 (Matt 13:44-46)
9   2 Peter 1:16—2:2, 15-19 (Mark 13:5-7)
16 2 Peter 3:1-10, 17-18 (Matt 24:42-44)
23 Proverbs 1:1-7; 3:1-8 (Matt 13:34-35)
30 Proverbs 8:1-11, 22-36 (John 8:56-58)

July Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 
2  Location: online 
Worship and sharing: Harvey Yoder
Bible Study: Elly Nelson
9 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
16 Location: VMRC Village Hall
Worship and Sharing at 3:30
Jamaican guests Sister Yvonne McDonald and Sister Regina Taylor at 4 pm
23 Location: No service, visit another church
30 Location: No service, visit another church

Thursday, June 1, 2023

June 2023 newsletter

 House-to-House

Family of Hope House Church                             June 2023

Some Family of Hope Alumni 

Here is a list of some past members and active attenders of our House Church:

Ametsreiter, Sue                                                   Morlan, Becky          
Blackburn, Gail                                                    Moyers, John      
Bontrager, Sherry                                                Nafziger, Dave and Marj
Brainard, Kate                                                      Patterson, Audrey                                           
Czecholinski, Laurie and Ron                         Rossen, Judy
Dumas, Cande, Josiah                                       See, David, Adela and family
Glunt, Mark and Donna                                    Soich, Karen
Good, Dorothy, Ronnie and Jason                 Sottolano, Chris
Gottfried, Eric and Rosella                               Sottolano, Craig and Jenn
Greenawalt, Ted and Kimberlee                     Stoltzfus, Rachel
Gullman, Dave and Debbie                              Weaver, Karen
Hairston, Will and Susie                                    Weaver, Shari
Harrelson, Charles                                               Westfall, Michael and Julie
Horton, Heather                                                   Underwood, Donnie and Jeanine
Ivanitsky, Serge and Dora                                  Zhou, Jack and Bo, Emily, Elianah
Johnson, Bruce and Ann, Dylan, Erin
Kanagy, David
Kreider, Barry and Erika
Lenker, Mark and Marie
Levesque, Trish

FOH Covenanting Statement:
"I support the goals, vision and faith of Family of Hope, will attend weekly services as regularly as I am able, and will use my gifts and offer my encouragement to this church family to the best of my ability. I invite other members to support me--and to confront me  as needed--in being faithful to this commitment."  

Notes, Prayers and Praises

BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS TO Harvey Yoder 6/30!
OUR NEXT IN-PERSON SERVICE is tentatively planned for June 18 at Heritage Haven.
GUY AND MARGIE VLASITS will be traveling to Budapest, Prague,Vienna and Salzburg June 2-15.
KENT PALMER will be taking a well deserved two-week vacation this month.

June Study Themes

4   Isaiah 6:1-8 (Luke 5:8-10)
11 Isaiah 9:1-7 (John 8:12)
18 Isaiah 55:1-13 (John 4:13-14)
25 Isaiah 61:1-11 (Luke 4:16-21)

June Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 

4  Location: online 
Worship and sharing: Harvey Yoder
Bible Study: Elly Nelson
11 Location: online: Kent Palmer
Worship and Sharing: Bible Study: Lois Rivera Wenger
18 Location: Heritage Haven Conference Room?
Worship and Sharing: Guy Vlasits
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
25 Location: online 
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera Wenger
Bible Study: Harvey Yoder 

Monday, April 24, 2023

May 2023 newsletter

House-to-House
Family of Hope House Church                                 May 2023

Christ Died To Save Us From Our Selfishness  - Harvey Yoder

Christians agree that Christ's death saves the repentant from the consequences of their sin and gives them an undeserved pass to Paradise. However, they haven't all agreed on just what that means, or on how that happens. 

One of the church's oldest theories of atonement was that of Christ's death and resurrection demonstrating God’s victory over the effects of sin and death, a victory and deliverance we can claim and celebrate by faith. Some, including St. Augustine in the fourth century, believed that Jesus's life of complete obedience to God, even to the point of death, was meant to influence us to repent of our sinning and to live that same kind of life   by the grace and power of God.   

Some later theologians believed Christ's death represented a kind of ransom paid, either to the devil or to God, one that paid the debt we owed and the guilt we incurred because of our transgressions, and which granted us our full pardon and deliverance. Or according to other scholars, Jesus became our substitute, taking the just  punishment we deserved, suffering and dying on our behalf, so we wouldn't need to bear the eternal consequence of out sins.

I'm inclined toward a view of Christ's life and death that doesn't have him saving us from a wrathful God, but that the same God who "so loved the world" entered a hostile, God-hating world in order to save us from ourselves and from the consequences of the world's self-centered way of life--and to enable us to live and love in the way Jesus did and the way God does. 

As an example, here is one of my favorite passages: 

Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.  Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.
Though he was God,
    he did not think of equality with God
    as something to cling to.
Instead, he gave up his divine privileges;
    he took the humble position of a slave
    and was born as a human being.
When he appeared in human form,
    he humbled himself in obedience to God
    and died a criminal’s death on a cross.         

Notes, Prayers and Praises

BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS TO Margie Vlasits, 5/1, and Alma Jean Yoder 5/15!
OUR NEXT IN-PERSON SERVICE is planned for May 21at Heritage Haven.
WE WILL HAVE OUR ANNUAL RECOVENANTING SERVICE on Pentecost Sunday, May 28, where we spend some time discerning future direction for Family of Hope as we had agreed to do at our business meeting in January.
LOIS RIVERA-WENGER is planning a move to Kentucky to live with her daughter Lorna and family. She anticipates continuing to be a part of our Zoom church meetings and being in touch by phone.

May Study Themes

7   Fifth Sunday of Easter Romans 1:1-17 Gospel as power of God for salvation to all, both Jews and Greeks (Matt 9:10-13)
14   Sixth Sunday of Easter Romans 3:28-30 5:1-11 God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Spirit; Christ died for the ungodly (Matt 11:28-30)
21 Seventh Sunday of Easter Romans 6:1-14 We were buried with him by baptism into death, so that we might walk in newness of life.  (Matt 6:24)
28 Pentecost Acts 2:1-4 Romans 8:14-39 The groaning of creation, Spirit helps us in our weakness, nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus (Matt 28:16-20)

May Services, 3:30-5:00 pm  

7  Location: online 
Worship and sharing: Elly Nelson
Bible Study: Roy Hange, District Overseer
14 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
21 Location: Heritage Haven Conference Room
Worship and Sharing: Guy Vlasits
Bible Study: Kent Palmer
28 Location: online (Pentecost Sunday)
Worship and Sharing, Bible Study and Recovenanting: 
c/o Harvey Yoder

Friday, March 31, 2023

 House-to-House
 Family of Hope House Church              __                April 2023

My Lord, What a Morning! (a reprint from our May 2012 newsletter)

On Easter Sunday morning (2012), those of us who gathered to celebrate our annual sunrise service met as usual at the entrance of what was once known as Massanutten Caverns, next to the home of Guy and Margie Vlasits. We assembled around the locked steel door of the cave at our usual 8 am time. Since this is right against the west side of Masssanutten Peak, the sun actually just comes up over the ridge at about that time.

In fact, the sun made its appearance right at the moment our speaker Elly Nelson spoke the words “He is risen!” as a part of her Easter homily. Elly inspired us to reflect on what the resurrection story means to all of us, that light is replacing darkness, life is replacing death. That’s what we celebrate. That’s what the Easter story is all about.

It seemed fitting that we had a woman bear this witness, since it was Mary, the mother of Jesus, and other women, not our Lord’s male followers, according to the gospel texts, who first arrived on the scene. It was women who exercised the courage to bring spices to apply to the body of their recently buried loved one. No one knows how they expected to enter a guarded cave with a large stone rolled in front of it, not unlike the barred steel door of our cave, marked with the words, “This Cave is Protected by Virginia Law.” Perhaps they simply trusted God to take care of that detail. Sabbath being over, love must find a way.

In the words of the 17th century poet George Herbert:

Can there be any day but this, 
Though many suns to shine endeavor?  
We count three hundred, but we miss:  
There is but one, and that one ever. 
      - Harvey Yoder             

Notes, Prayers and Praises

LEWIS AND MARY ELLEN attended the funeral of a beloved cousin and brother-in-law in South Carolina set for April 2. We continue to offer prayers for those grieving losses and experiencing difficult life challenges.
BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS TO to Mary Ellen Overholt 4/5 and Cathy Atwell 4/19!
OUR NEXT IN-PERSON SERVICE is planned for April 16 at Heritage Haven.

April Study Themes

2   Triumphal Entry Palm Sunday Matthew 21:1-17 cleansing the temple crucifixion, Good Friday Matthew 27:27-61 (Psalm 118:25-29)
9   Easter Matthew 28:1-10 Resurrection, empty tomb, women encounter the risen Jesus (Psalm 118:19-24)
16 Second Sunday of Easter Matthew 28:16-20 Great commission (Psalm 40:9-10)
23 Third Sunday of Easter Acts 10:1-48 Peter’s vision (Matt 9:36-37)
30 Fourth Sunday of Easter Acts 13:1-3; 14:8-18 Beginning of Paul’s mission. Healing at Lystra, gospel to the Gentile world (Matt 10:40-42)

April Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 

2  Location: online
Sharing and prayer: Elly Nelson
Scriptures and songs for Holy Week: c/o Harvey Yoder
9 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
16 Location: Heritage Haven Conference Room
Worship and Sharing: Harvey Yoder
Bible Study: Kent Palmer
23 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Kent Palmer
Bible Study: Lois Rivera-Wenger
30 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Elly Nelson

Sunday, February 26, 2023

Forgiveness Is All About Healed Relationships

Some of Elly Nelson's reflections in her February 26 Bible Study:

The act of forgiveness as biblically stated, involves not holding someone’s sin against them in a way that the relationship is strained, or enmity is created between individuals.

Of course, we may never forget the way someone has wronged us. People do terrible, evil things. Even fellow believers are capable of hurting us in profound ways. The point of forgiveness, however, is that we no longer keep a record or tally of those wrongs that we might use against them in the future.

When someone sins against us, if we’ve forgiven them, we don’t bring back previous sin as an added offense. Their debt has been erased, the score has been settled, and they are free from any burden of guilt.

We too are freed from bitterness, anger, and the constant need to seek retribution or demand reparation for their wrongs. It’s not easy. When someone hurts us, we often want to hold onto our resentment and sense of indignation, believing we are justified in seeking retribution or vindication.

The Bible, however, says that we are to “let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you” (Ephesians 4:31-32).

Forgiveness brings freedom to both parties, whereas unforgiveness only breeds bitterness, resentment, and further division. Jesus had addressed this when He addressed the need for believers to correct a brother or sister who has sinned.

When we lovingly confront those who’ve sinned against us, not in malice or vengeance but gentleness and reconciliation, we give the person the opportunity to confess, repent, and seek forgiveness. If they do, praise God. As Jesus says, “you have won your brother” (Matthew 18:15). This, of course, should always be the goal, the restoration of the relationship.

Ah, there is the word that I was looking for as I recounted the celestial event of the first of this month and the dog-walking at the last of this month. 

RELATIONSHIP.

March 2023 newsletter

House-to-House

 Family of Hope House Church              __       March 2023


Staying Awake Can Be Hard To Do

"But make sure that you don’t get so absorbed and exhausted in taking care of all your day-by-day obligations that you lose track of the time and doze off, oblivious to God. The night is about over, dawn is about to break. Be up and awake to what God is doing!” 

                                      Ken Peterson, Romans 13:11ff THE MESSAGE 

 

     Among the few books we had in our family library at home was one on the April 14, 1912, sinking of the Titanic, billed as the finest and most reliable ocean liner ever. I remember how horrified I was reading about the fate of all the people who wined and dined together in high style on that voyage, oblivious to the disaster that awaited them.

     In a similar way we may find ourselves lulled into believing that our ship of state, the now aging republic known as the United States of America, will endure forever. We are promised it will not only manage to avoid any future decline or disaster (of the kind that all empires of the past have experienced) but will gain ever increasing greatness.

     Thus in spite of the fact that both scripture and history tell us differently, we continue to trust in our broken economic and political system as though there were no tomorrow, or that our every tomorrow will be just like the present.

     In his book "Rewilding the Way", Todd Wynward quotes from the Dark Mountain Project, a group of artists and writers who take a contrasting view of where things are headed: 

     "Human civilization... is built on little more than belief: belief in the rightness of its values; belief in the strength of its system of law and order; belief in its currency; above all, perhaps, belief in its future. We live in an age in which familiar restraints are being kicked away, and foundations snatched from under us... A similar human story is being played out. It is the story of empire eroding from within us. It is the story of a people who believed, for a long time, that their actions did not have consequences. It is the story of how that people will cope with the crumbling of their own myths. It is our story.”       - Harvey Yoder             


Notes, Prayers and Praises


JAMES AND RUTH STAUFFER have moved to rooms 224 and 225 in the Redbud unit at VMRC’s Crestwood.

BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS TO RUTH STAUFFER, 3/28!

DONNA AND LEN SACRA suffered extensive loss due to a fire on one of their properties at Cootes Store west of Broadway.

OUR NEXT IN-PERSON SERVICE is planned for March 19 at Heritage Haven.


March Study Themes


5    Matthew 20:1-16 Parable of laborers in vineyard (Psalm 16:5-8)

12  Matthew 22:1-14 Parable of wedding banquet (Psalm 45:6-7)

19  Matthew 25:1-30 Parable of the bridesmaids and the talents (Psalm 43:3-4)

26  Matthew 25:31-46 The judgment of the nations (Psalm 98:7-9)


March Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 


5  Location: online

Worship and sharing: Harvey Yoder

Bible Study: Dick Dumas


12 Location: online

Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger

Bible Study: Kent Palmer


19 Location: Heritage Haven Conference Room

Worship and Sharing: Elly Nelson

Bible Study: Harvey Yoder


26 Location: online

Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger

Bible Study: Elly Nelson

Family of Hope Business Meeting

Family of Hope Annual Income and Spending Review and Discussion of FOH’s Future
Location: Zoom online
Date: January 29, 2023
Time 3:50-5 p.m.

Agenda 
1. Presentation and discussion of Income and Expenses (Treasurer’s) Report prepared by Susan Campbell
2. Discussion of future meetings of Family of Hope

Harvey opened the meeting with prayer.

The Income and Spending (Treasurer’s) Report was shared on-screen.
Harvey thanked Susan for compiling the Report. He noted that our aspirational budget was $16,800, but that we actually took in $11,210 in 2022. He noted that we have not stressed giving and that we still
had more than enough to give to targeted agencies. Harvey queried Susan about how incoming funds
come in. Susan: It varies. Some give monthly through bank transfer, some may give a single large
amount once a year, and some may give a larger amount every few months. Harvey queried Susan
regarding her workload in tracking finances and preparing reports. Susan responded that the workload
was not that hard except for the end of the year when closing out the year and waiting for final bank
statements.

Harvey reviewed expenditures: regarding local expenses, there was more than enough. $500 was
distributed for a local need, while $2500 was designated. He advised that Susan could petition for
postage costs. Susan disclaimed the need to do so. Harvey questioned a miscellaneous expense. Susan
said it was for Daniel Bowman as a guest speaker.

Harvey asked for questions or comments and then moved on to routine expenditures. $2800 was
allocated and distributed for routine Mennonite Conference Agencies. $3750 was allocated and
distributed to Mennonite USA agencies. Harvey asked for questions or comments.
David Weaver: David commented on our giving to Our Community Place. He suggested they may be
drifting away from Christian context. He stated further that Kingsway is doing good work and that perhaps we should shift some funds there. We need to get more information regarding this.
Harvey questioned an expenditure of $3000. Susan explained that it was a one-time donation to Open
Doors organization based on funds remaining from the 2021 overage after budgeted expenditures were
satisfied. This donation had been agreed upon by consensus.

Harvey requested reimbursement for Virginia Conference delegate fee and transportation, which would
be $60 plus the bus fee.

Roy Hange commented with admiration that the giving profile of the Family of Hope congregation
exceed that of many churches within his purview that are two and three times our size. This may be due
in part to the fact that our pastor accepts no salary.

No vote was taken and no revision to budget was determined pending investigation of Our Community
Place and discussion of maintaining the treasury based on the outcome of desire to continue the Family
of Hope Congregation as it is currently structured has been determined.

We exploring the results of the survey results concerning the continuance of Family of Hope
Harvey opened the discussion with responses to the questions posed in the survey. The survey results
were shared on the screen, with the letter M designating covenant members and the letter A designated
those who fellowship with Family of Hope but who have membership in other congregations that are
either Mennonite affiliated or of another affiliation. He stated first that he was in no way “burned out”
and would continue as lead pastor as long as his health allows.

He suggested further that we were all to answer the questions in the survey as we were led by The Spirit
to answer from an individual perspective and to continue to do that during our discussion of the survey
results. The survey questions were:
__ I believe it's time for Family of Hope to disband as an official Virginia Mennonite Conference congregation and have its members join other local congregations. (1 means you want FOH to continue just as it has been, 5 that you feel we should disband and have each person transfer their membership. )
 If we were to disband as an official congregation...
_ I would choose another church to be an active part of (1 means you would probably not choose to join another congregation, 5 that you would become an active member elsewhere, or if unsure, choose 2, 3, or 4)
__ I would be interested in maintaining ties with FOH folks interested in occasional meetings for prayer and fellowship rather than becoming a part of another church's small group or cell group

Elly: Elly admitted to confusion as to why a vote to disband as an official Mennonite Conference congregation would preclude disbanding as a fellowship of believers, why the alternative to remaining as we have been would be to transfer membership to a different congregation. She stated that she would not join another congregation because she has never experienced a fellowship such as this in any other church.
Susan: It would be sad to see FOH disbanded, but she is okay with whatever the majority decides.
Lois: She is not likely to join another church due to Covid concerns – for herself and for others-and would keep attending remotely via Zoom.
David: He chooses to go on as we have been and not go elsewhere, but not necessarily as an official congregation of the Mennonite Conference.
Harvey asked Roy how small a congregation could be and still be a valid Mennonite congregation. Roy answered that a minimum number was required to plant a church, but that he did not know the numbers required to remain in the Virginia Mennonite Conference.
Lewis: He feels he is a part of the congregation and loves the people here. He would
like to continue to be part of the congregation but doesn’t want to stay on Zoom for
the rest of his life.
Mary Ellen: She reviewed options available to them at VMRC, including bible studygroups and services at Strite auditorium. She still has a strong bond with theirformer church in Americus, GA, but would not transfer membership from Family ofHope.
Paul: Stated that he will remain in attendance with this congregation as long aspossible, just as we are.
Guy: He values the relationships within FOH, but finds it hard this way (through Zoom). He is willing to continue for the time being, but that Zoom is not a long-term option for him because it is too hard to maintain relationships.
Kent: He is not certain that the congregation is sustainable in the long term. He is not sure if the spirit that drew him to our group exists now, as we have been meeting via Zoom for so long.
Harvey added that he would prefer meeting face to face, and the topic of hybrid meetings arose.
Lively discussion ensued, with suggestions of meeting in a room at Park View Church which has a giant screen and wired sound system that makes it seem like everyone is present even if some are via Zoom. He also discussed an excellent ventilation system exists there.
The possibility of meeting in a room at VMRC was added to the discussion. Pros were listed as close proximity for Lewis and Mary Ellen, Paul and David. Whether the facilities for a large screen and optimum sound quality could be met is in question as well as permissions. Cons are ventilation.
Harvey asked Dick for his input on the survey.
Dick: He likes the proposals and would like to continue FOH. He has concerns about meeting in person. Kent asked Dick how he was in hybrid meetings that were outside, and Dick stated that he was fine with a hybrid meeting outside.
The consensus was that an outdoor venue does not afford those attending remotely to feel like a part of the meeting, or for those physically present to connect with those attending remotely, which is a great disadvantage. If we could find a place for hybrid meetings that would be safe and offer a viable solution, it would keep us connected in the manner that we all desire, while those who have reservations about meeting corporeally would still have the sense of being present.
Knowing that Kent, who normally does all the technical work to get us connected via Zoom is typically absent one Sunday each month. Elly volunteered to learn whatever is need to fill in for him on that one Sunday.
Harvey suggested experimenting for a year or two in finding and using a venue that would work well for us. Guy countered with three months.
Though no action was taken on the budget and consensus was not reached regarding continuation as a Virginia Mennonite Conference congregation, a consensus was reached that we will do all that we can to make it possible for those who wish to attend in person and those who wish to remain remotely connected will be able to convene in the best way possible. To that end, Harvey suggested that he and Kent would explore options at VMRC and at Park View as starting points, and promised for one Sunday in February to be a hybrid service.

Roy Hange brought our meeting to a close with kind words and an uplifting blessing
as benediction.

Wednesday, February 1, 2023

February 2023 newsletter

House-to-House
Family of Hope House Church                February 2023

Stage IV Malignancies Endangering  the Body of Christ?   
At the winter Delegate Assembly Saturday, 2/4, delegates from Virginia Mennonite Conference congregations heard a report and recommendations from an outside consulting and listening group concerning mistrust of Conference structures and leadership in the wake of charges of professional misconduct by the Executive Minister. We also considered at length some bylaw changes regarding the way members of the Conference Congregational Council are chosen. 

These are certainly issues deserving our prayerful attention, but I also wished we had more time for serious discernment and prayer about other pressing issues affecting all of us, like...

A Pandemic of Affluenza: Our members are becoming increasingly affluent, building expansive homes, going on Caribbean cruises and enjoying the finest of fares, while the gap between people of privilege and wealth and the world’s poor and homeless becomes ever wider. 

Excommuni-mania. While excommunication of individual members in the pattern of Matthew 18 has become almost unheard of, whole congregations are withdrawing from communication and fellowship with fellow believers in other whole groups of churches they have been a part of for decades. In my own lifetime, we have gone from having three Anabaptist communions in Rockingham County alone to over a dozen today. 

Sports Attention Disorder. Super Bowl Sunday, for example, may generate more interest and engagement on the part of many members than do Good Friday, Easter and World Communion Sunday combined.

Fidelity Deficit Disorder. Teens and young adults, gay and straight alike, are increasingly experiencing physical intimacy with multiple partners, then often living together in undocumented marriages before having a church blessed wedding. The use of readily available pornography is also adversely affecting members of our communities at an ever younger age. 

MAGA-phoria. Ever more of our members are aligned with election deniers, insurrectionists, gun regulation opponents, climate crisis deniers and advocates for an America-first, nationalist and militaristic agenda that is unwelcoming of refugees and people of other races and ethnic groups. Our members on both the political left and right are increasingly alienated from each other.

There is so much to praise God for in the family of faith that has been home to me for most of my adult life. May God grant us wisdom to discern a way forward in the spirit of Lord's prayer in John 17, the experience of Jewish and Gentile congregations at odds with each other in Acts 15, and the appeals for unity on the part of missionary Paul in his letters to the Corinthians, Ephesians and others.                                                  

Notes, Prayers and Praises

LEWIS AND MARY ELLEN OVERHOLT celebrated their wedding anniversary January 13. Congratulations!

DAVID WEAVER GOT THIS RESPONSE to a Christmas card he sent to someone on a list of prisoners often forgotten by the outside world: “I've lost all my family members who cared enough to send cards in the past 23 years, so I only get a few during the holidays. I'm still on a quest to have an Ancestry DNA test done so I can find my biological father, who is unaware of my existence. My mother served in the Navy with him and never told my father about me. She left the service and gave me up to my grandparents who adopted and raised me. The VA Department of Corrections just won't let me use a DNA …It’s an ongoing battle, but I feel that all hope is lost and I will never find my father before he passes away. The passage of time slowly takes away all the joy of life and leaves nothing but sadness, but your card helped a little for that. Merry Christmas.” - Tom Melnyczyn Deerfield Correctional Center

February Study Themes

5    Matthew 7:1-14, 24-29 Speck in the eye, narrow gate, wise man builds house on rock (Psalm 37:16-18)
12  Matthew 13:24-43 Parable of wheat and weeds (Psalm 84:1-7)
19  Matthew 16:24--17:8 Passion prediction, bearing the cross, Transfiguration (Psalm 41:7-10)
26  Matthew 18:15-35 Church discipline, forgiving 70 times 7, parable of unforgiving servant (Psalm 32:1-2)

February Services, 3:30-5:00 pm 

5  Location: online
Worship and sharing: Elly Nelson
Bible Study: Harvey Yoder
12 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Dick Dumas
19 Location: Heritage Haven conference room
Worship and Sharing: Harvey Yoder
Bible Study: Kent Palmer
26 Location: online
Worship and Sharing: Lois Rivera-Wenger
Bible Study: Elly Nelson